الأحد، 23 نوفمبر 2008

Life...different concepts that form a man......promises


a promise is a promise...a man's word counts and must be respected...concepts and principles we've lost by time.....morals that are supposed to be there no matter what... no matter how fast life changes..to the worst !!
whenever i give a promise i try as hard as i can to nv break it...i dont know but while i was growing up i saw my dad dealing with his promises the same way...talking about how promises make a man...how a promise is supposed to be respected...in whatever...he taught me as long as i promise anyone something...i have to do it....i must do it !!....or...i wont promise it the first place...and i felt that such concept is normal and present in most of us..as i found it in most of my family members.
but actually while growing up i saw that promises especially in our country is neglected in a very horrible way..that a man can promise u help in a life changing matter and u still cant count on his promise...that u have to wait till u see a real action which most of the time if not being in return for another favour isnt done....yet this doesnt mean that there is no one out there to respect and count on....the promise keepers are there but they remain few in a very disturbing way...

while growing up we..especially guys lose the morals and concept that actually supposed to make a man who can one day rise another successful man that a country can count on for rising it up...and some ppl might thing a promise isnt that dangerous that it can decide the fate of a whole country and another coming generation....yet a promise-for me- is one of the most important characteristic that build a man who can be capable of being responsible for another family and so for his own country and for it's glory...cause actually working on forming a new family in a corrupted society needs a man with a principle inorder to be able to rise a man who refuse living in any kind of corruption and even try to repair it...
yet i found out that most of our future men who are supposed to build this country and make it a better place...cant even keep a simple promise of arriving somewhere in time !!!....while actually being in time or respecting an appointment u've made with who ever u make it with is listed as a promise to respect...keep and follow...u find very few ppl still respect such promise !!....and the list goes on for such simple actions that we translate as non-bothering ones..are actually life changing ones..

for me i still believe that a man isnt a man without being able to respect those daily promises he makes...cause when a man respect his word...he respect others...he respect his family....and he respect the new family he is going to form and build with someone he is going to respect no matter any change in the circumstances or any kind of problems that are going to face him along the way...leading in the end to a respectable man with a reputation to be always remembered ....leaving behind successful men and women who can lead the world one day..cause he taught them to respect what most of the ppl think isnt worth respect !!

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